Monday, June 2, 2008

feeling down and out. . .

Rather you’re a teenager, a parent, a spouse, whomever. Everyone has their days where something has got you down and you just take everything out on everyone else. You just want to be to yourself and want to be left alone. Family problems, marriage isn’t going the way you want it too, can not just find that one happy place inside. Everyone has been there, but some stay there. It’s their life and they cant seem to change it. Teenager acting out, pretending to be something their not, parents claim they don’t know why. Only if they take the time to sit with you and listen to you talk, they will know something is wrong because you are a part of them. Depression is the worst pain ever. Family is the worst type of problems to have. If you don’t have your family, you don’t have no one. It’s always the closest ones to our heart that hurt us most, or even the ones we find trusting. Feeling like your heart has been ripped out your chest and you can never love again. I feel for teens having this problems. I can actually say I know how you feel. For adults I cant say I truly feel your pain, but I understand. Not knowing what your heart desires and not being in that perfect family or moment everyone wishes for. Life goes on, but that sometimes isn’t the best thing. People say, you’ll get over it, just keep moving forward. Its hard to move forward, when there’s that one pain that’s keeping you back. Your crying out for help deep down inside, but just can’t get that word out of your mouth. Love is the most greatest thing when it comes to loving another, but it hurts like hell. Sometimes the best love is the love that hurts. Love is pain, and without pain, you don’t gain, gain the love that you deserve. Now pain doesn’t mean abuse. Maybe just a little tough love, to show the other you care. Love is never supposed to be bruises, verbal abuse, depression, or just pain period. Parents and children need to come to an agreement one day, and one day soon. Miscommunication is horrible. Your always supposed to communicate, even if you don’t understand at times. Marriages are supposed to be long time commitments. There shouldn’t be a such thing as divorce especially when you have children. If your going to divorce your spouse, then you shouldn’t get married. Yes, I know sometimes you don’t know that your going to get divorced, but I don’t think nobody problems are that bad. Now, if your abusing your spouse or child, you need serious help. There should never be a reason to abuse another, no matter how angry you get. Abuse is a sign of miscommunication. Families aren’t how they use to be. . .

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